Gifts for Writers (That They Actually Want): 6 Suggestions

I am constantly besieged by ads for products and gift ideas intended for writers. Some of them are cute, some of them are interesting, but most of them are rather useless when it comes to what I actually need as a writer. As much as a sweatshirt with a quill on it will keep me warm, it won’t help me reach my writing goals.

Let’s take a look at some gifts you could give an self-published, or aspiring self-published writer, that can actually be used in their writing journey. Also, you might get a shout out in the acknowledgements of their book and that’s always awesome.

Gifts for Writers (That They Actually Want): 6 Suggestions

Before You Select a Gift

You need to start by learning more about the writer you’re buying for. You might know little to nothing about the self-publishing industry or even what kind of writing your friend or family member does. Go deeper than a product with a funny label about how hard writing is and talk to them about their craft.

Believe me, they will probably be more than happy to share their work with you.

I cannot stress just how important this step is. If you don’t talk to your author, you will never know what they actually need, and probably will not be able to get them a gift they can use. This is essential and it’s also easy. Asking someone to talk about their passion is takes one well-placed sentence and then you sit back while they do the work for you.

Gifts for Writers (That They Actually Want): 6 Suggestions

Gift Ideas for Writers

1. Read and Review

If your loved one has already been published and has a book out, buy that book and leave them a review. It’s really that simple. All of the sweatshirts in the world can’t make up for the helpfulness of a review on Amazon, GoodReads, or Barnes & Noble. Also, while the book will cost money, and it probably will be less than you were going to spend originally. Not to mention, writing a review is completely free.

2. Hire a Professional

Self-publishing does not just require being able to write. It can involve graphic design, formatting, blurbs, editing, proofreading, marketing, website design, email lists, and so much more it’s slightly ridiculous. If your writer is a fantastic author, but uses MS Paint to make their cover designs, think about gifting them a certificate for a graphic artist (and you probably already know one), or just giving them the gift of cash to use towards finding one themselves.

Note: Websites like Fivver can be useful for finding professionals who work at low price points, but be sure to independently verify their credentials. A quick post on your local Facebook Marketplace or Craig’s List often turns up dozens of people who could help a writer work on their book.

Gifts for Writers (That They Actually Want): 6 Suggestions

3. Classes and Further Education

I know what you’re thinking:

Hold on, Star, wouldn’t that kind of gift be insulting?

The answer is that everyone can work to improve their writing, whether they’re just starting out or they’ve even published a book before. If your writer friend regularly teaches classes like these, then yes, consider another gift. But there is nothing wrong with helping someone find insight and community through a class or seminar.

Also, the class doesn’t have to be for writing only. It could be for social media management for authors, submitting books to agents or publishers, networking in the writing world, or even how to put together a writing resume.

Remember were I talked about writers having to do much more than write? This could be a chance to help them improve something other than writing, that will help them with their writing goals.

Caveat: Although you’ve probably seen a billion flashy ads for writing seminars and this kind of class or that kind of class online, be very careful when selecting which one is right for your writer friend. While anyone with an internet connection seems to be offering a class on this, that, or whatever, you want to make sure to check out reviews for this class.

Pay careful attention to what the reviews say the writers are taught, how they are evaluated, if they are evaluated at all, or what they can reasonably expect to leave this class or seminar with. This could be a great time to find local workshops or writing centers where you could find quality instruction and real life connection for your favorite writer.

Check out The Muse Writers Center, based out of Norfolk, VA, for quality online classes on everything writing. They offer tuition assistance and classes at a variety of price points. From one-day seminars to 8-week workshops. I’ve taken classes with them for over 5 years and have never been disappointed.

4. Be a Reader for Them

One thing you could do for your writer friend or family member is read the project they’re working on yourself and provide feedback. You don’t have to be a professional in order to tell the writer what you enjoyed, what questions you had, and what you think they might want to work on.

Your feedback, whether it’s praise or criticism, is valuable to a writer. After all, most people who read the book will be everyday readers, just like yourself. If you didn’t understand why Princess Tylia used the Sword of Acorn and not the more powerful Dagger of Vengar to save the day, neither with the other people who read it. It could be very helpful for the finished project to be vetted by readers.

5. Writing Ritual Items They Will Actually Use

A lot of writers have rituals that come with sitting down to write. They might like to listen to a particular kind of music, prefer to drink their favorite coffee or tea, or even use a certain kind of pen to write with, if they write longhand. These are often the items subscription box companies try to tell you are contained in their products.

However, if your writer friend uses a pen, they have an exact pen or style of pen they probably like. You simply can’t hand them a pen you got for free from your dentist’s office and expect it to strike the same chord.

Do your research. As I said before, most writers will be delighted to share this information with you. If you want to keep them from catching on to the fact that you’re getting them a gift, just say you’re curious about their craft or wonder why they always seem to be drinking the same kind of tea or carrying the same fountain pen.

6. Low on Cash? No Problem!

There are other ways to help out an indie author that doesn’t even have to involve opening your wallet. If they have kids, offer to look after them one afternoon so they can get some quality writing time in. Bring them a meal so they can write away instead of losing their evening to meal preparation and clean up.

Once you know their genre, you can also scour thrift shops, library sales, or your own book shelves for books that they might find inspiring or helpful. Buying a poet a well-loved volume you thought they’d connect with is the stuff poems are made of.

Ask your writer what keeps them from writing and see if there’s a way for you to fill that gap. Sometimes presents can be acts of service and for writers, that’s sometimes exactly what we need.

Gifts for Writers (That They Actually Want): 6 Suggestions

Are You Sure I Can’t Just Order a Writer Subscription Box?

You can. If you think that’s exactly what your writer wants and needs. I’m not the boss of you.

However, from an insider’s perspective, the self-publishing industry is vast and complex. Anyone involved in it knows how difficult and sometimes heartbreaking it can be to be an indie writer. While a candle called “Writer Tears” might elicit a chuckle when unwrapped, there’s so many more concrete ways you could be helpful and supportive of your loved one.

Besides, they probably already have that candle.

How to be a Prolific Writer: Top 5 Misconceptions

How to be a Prolific Writer: Top 5 Misconceptions by Star LaBranche

Anyone who has a difficult time getting their butt in a chair so they can write has probably seen endless articles, all saying the same thing, about how they, too, can be a prolific writer. Unfortunately, the advice, while it may work for some people, doesn’t take a lot of other aspects into account when they talk about being prolific and how to cultivate this ability.

To be honest, a lot of it makes it seem like you have to be so ridged and disciplined the only people who could manage the advice are those without jobs, families, lives, even pets.

I’m a prolific writer (how prolific? I once wrote 50,000 words in four and a half days) and I follow few, if any, of these “requirements”. Let’s break down some of the rules that you apparently have to follow in order to be prolific and how I manage to be prolific without following any of them.


The reason why I can manage to follow almost none of those requirements and still be incredibly prolific is partly because I am mentally ill and my bipolar disorder makes me obsessive about projects I enjoy and also sometimes gives me excess energy to use when I’m working. I get very dog with a bone.

While I realize my mental illness contributes to my output in some fashion, I also realize there are plenty of ways one can be productive without following common advice and also the limitations someone like me has with said advice. Let’s take a deeper look at how to be prolific and why sometimes the expected answer is not the only one.

1. Have a strict writing routine

I get that making time in your day, organizing your life so you can carve out some time to write is important. Even the ritual of sitting down to write can be important. However, many people take this too far.

Instead of trying to cultivate a place or time you feel comfortable writing, some advice gives you instructions on how to set up a distraction-free writing haven, away from any possible interruption. As if we all have, or even need, dedicated workspaces, no distractions, or a specific ritual involving the right cup of tea, the fuzziest cozy socks, and the perfect set of pens to take notes with at your side.

My Take

I write whenever I can. My writing is all digital so I use whatever is at my disposal to get going. I carry a notebook in my purse if I want to jot something down, and have so many notebooks in my house, I will never probably need to buy a new one (although I definitely will). I have a notes section in my phone dedicated to my random thoughts and ideas.

I write on my computer, I write on my phone, I write on my tablet, I print things out and edit them on paper sometimes. I write in the morning, afternoon, evening, whatever fits in my schedule. Sometimes I wake up and go immediately to my computer after my morning routine to start writing. Sometimes I end the night at my computer, writing. Sometimes I do both.

The 2000 film Quills struck a particular chord with me. This fictionalized account of the life of the Marquis de Sade after he’s put in a mental institution was probably not something I should have been watching as a teenager, but what really resonated with me was de Sade’s dedication to his craft.

He wrote and and when they took away his paper, he wrote on his clothes. When they took away his ink, he wrote with his own blood. When they took away everything, he smeared his own excrement on the walls.

This is not to say he’s a role model. But the point is, nothing could stop him from writing. As long as he had walls and poop, he was going to create words. I don’t go to that extreme, but I try to keep the same spirit. As long as I have something to write on, I can work on something. If not the actual body of work, then taking notes, plotting what comes next, doing edits, etc.

I don’t have a favorite pair of writing socks. I don’t need a particular piece of music playing while I write. I don’t have any of that and it doesn’t slow me down.

If you’re someone who needs some of the ritual, but all means indulge, but realize that not all of us are in a point in our life where we can carve our the same time, space, and practice to write. If you can’t do that, it doesn’t mean that you don’t write. It means you get creative and write anyway.

2. Write Daily

If you’re trying to build a writing habit and have never written regularly before, this could be helpful for you. But if you have a life, like many people do, and it involves many things, writing every day might not be possible. It’s also important to note that if you miss a day of writing or can’t manage the daily schedule, this doesn’t mean you’re not a writer, you’re bound to fail, or you’ve already lost before you finished your work.

My Take

I don’t write daily. In fact, I sometimes go through phases, where I will write obsessively for months and then stop completely for the months following. At first, I thought it was bad, even dangerous, that I didn’t write daily. But even if I stopped writing, even for months, I would always go back to it. It would get done, one way or another.

But this is the difference between forgetting to write and purposely putting it off until I’m ready to write again. I didn’t stop thinking about writing and I may have even jotted down notes in the meantime, but when I was ready to start again, I went back to it like I had never stopped.

Writing daily is great, if it works for you. If you can’t find the time every single day to carve out some writing time, don’t worry. That doesn’t make you a bad or lazy writer. It just means you have a life and that’s fine.

3. Outline Extensively

When it comes to rules of writing, there are general practices, good ideas, and personal preferences. Outlining is a wonderful tool for setting up a story before you even start actually working on the story. But the world will not end if you start putting words on a page without having the work essentially written in outline form.

My Take

I write mainly poetry and sometimes short story, with a little bit of everything else sprinkled in. For a novel, I think outlining is great idea. Although, I have written novels with just some ideas in my head. But when it comes to poetry and sometimes even blogs or articles, extensive outline can be an effort in futility.

Sometimes when you’re writing a chapbook, the work changes as you write. I also find poets are more adept to dealing with this change and won’t get bent out of shape if they need to reconsider part of their project because it took on a life of its own. I think a work changing as it starts to breathe is a beautiful thing, no matter the genre.

When I’m writing a chapbook, I usually pick a title and start designing a cover early in the process. That is to say, before the work is finished. I often end up changing one or both, but this I look at as part of the process. Not something that detracts from it, or work I’ve had to do over. The tile and the cover help shape the piece and when the piece shapes itself, I adjust the title and cover. (Also, I find covers are really fun to do and enjoy playing round with pictures and elements, so even if I end up doing it over, I really don’t mind.)

4. Have formal education in writing

I’m going to discuss this topic in greater detail in another blog and video, but right now, I am specifically writing about having a formal education in order to be prolific. While taking classes, whether formal or informal, is a great way to expand your writing, you might not write more just because you took a class. There could be a variety of reasons for this.

My Take

I love to take classes at The Muse Writers Center in Norfolk, Virginia. I’ve taken art classes, poetry classes, fiction classes, writing software classes, so many, I can’t even remember them all in the 6 years I’ve been attending their workshops. I always come away with lots of ideas and sometimes starts to a poem or short story or even a different perspective on my writing. These classes help me to be more productive, because they are high-quality, well structured, and the instructors are vetted professionals.

Meanwhile, if I had a nickel for every ad I get on social media for writing classes, conferences, and publishing schools, I would have paid off my student loans by now. Unfortunately, not all writing classes are the same and some charge thousands of dollars to go through a course that may not end up helping you at all.

It makes me uneasy to think people are promoting any conference or class or school to help someone become more productive, when so many of them are poor or dubious quality. If getting your butt in a chair and writing is your problem, you might need more butt in chair time, and not another conference or class.

5. Don’t wait for inspiration

I have to roll my eyes when someone encourages writers to just write write write even when it’s just not happening. If you’ve glued yourself to your desk and you are insisting on writing something because you feel like you have to, you’re probably going to hate the process of writing rather than become a prolific writer.

There are deadlines sometimes or other time constraints that put you at your desk while you’d rather be somewhere else. However, getting yourself into the habit of sitting at your desk to either stare at a blank screen or write nonsense, is just going to make you resent writing and want to do it less, not more.

My Take

I will freely say that if I have an idea for a poem or story and for whatever reason, it’s just not working, I will put it down. I will sleep on it. I will come back in a day, a month, a year, and I will write it when it’s time. I hate to feel like I’m forcing every word on the page, because, quite frankly, the reader can probably tell it’s forced.

Giving my brain a break every so often makes me more prolific, not less. The important part is that I write the idea down somewhere and I do return to it. It will get written, just not on that exact day.

Bonus: Never Get Writer’s Block

I’ve seen the idea that true creatives never get writer’s block bandied around like if you’ve ever gotten it, you are clearly not a creative or a writer and should feel deep shame. There are a lot of ideas on how people never get writer’s block, but it always comes down to that writer’s block is for beginners and those who aren’t very good writers at all.

My Take

I get writer’s block. I happen to be a human being with a brain that sometimes limps around, and I will occasionally get writer’s block. Whether I get a block on a certain piece that I’m working on, or just sit down at the computer, wanting to write and nothing happens, I get writer’s block.

The trick to overcoming writer’s block is not to stop it from happening all together or just keep writing until your fingers bleed. It’s giving yourself the time you need to rest, relax, and come back to your writing with a set of fresh eyes. No one benefits from you torturing yourself when you need sleep, a good meal, some down time, or some time to take care of something else in your life.

Another tip to overcoming writer’s block is to give yourself that break, figure out what you need to do, do it, and then come back to writing when you’re ready. Again, the coming back part is where people seem to get lost. If you have to set a reminder on your calendar or phone, then do it. But come back to writing and reevaluate where you’re at.

You might find the idea you’re stuck on needed a new angle and you could happily type away for hours on your new prospective. You could find the idea just doesn’t work and discard it for other ideas that will fit in better with what you’ve already written. You could even take a bad idea you had, turn it into a better one, and rework what you wrote previously to give it a completely new life.

My Tips for Being a Prolific Writer

I want to put a disclaimer on this before I start, I was seemingly born a prolific writer. I have never had a problem with output that I had to overcome. How I managed to produce what I’ve done is sometimes a mystery to me. Other times it’s very clearly because I’m bipolar.

However, here are some practices I have that have served me well throughout the years.

  1. Be persistent: I am a prolific writer, at least partly, because I am mentally ill and become obsessive over projects and tasks. Persistence pays off. Little by little you can find yourself working towards a novel or a book of poetry. Remember that this is a big project and take it in small chunks. It’s the best way to look at it.
  2. Find a writing/life balance: It’s important to keep track of how your writing time is affecting your life and how your life is affecting your writing time. While lots of advice will say to abandon all for your writing, if you need to work to live, that’s just not possible.
  3. Be flexible: Sometimes your writing situations are less than ideal. It happens to everyone. Keep working on finding the time and space you need to write. Make adjustments where needed and even when it’s hard, keep working towards your goals.
  4. Put your butt in your chair and write: So much of this advice prolific advice seems to have little to do with actual writing. If you want to be a prolific writer, you have to write. It’s not anymore complicated than that. Is it easy? Not all the time. But no matter how many rituals you come up with or how well you outline your novel, nothing is going to happen if you don’t get that butt in chair time and get some words down.
  5. BE PERSISTENT: Nothing has helped me write more than always going back to it. No matter how life gets in the way, no matter the stops and starts, no matter what’s going on with my own mental health, I always go back to writing. That’s why breaks don’t bother me anymore. If I need one, I take one. Because I know I will find my way back in time.

Yes, I Wrote this Blog in One Sitting

See? Butt in chair time. It gets things done.

Here It Comes Again…

Today I learned that a young person named An is doing god’s work. They have recreated MySpace and have named it SpaceHey. Filling out my profile brought about the feeling of replaying a video game you loved a decade later: Everything’s there, but you’re still looking around for it.

Earlier this morning I emailed my manuscript for my memoir, moon lost her memory, which yes, is all in lowercase, to the proofreader. Writing this book has been a difficult task. It’s one thing for me to experience all of these thoughts, most of them negative, bumping around in my head all day, but it’s another to see them all written out.

The good thing about writing this book was that I seem to have taken some power away from the memories. Purging things I’ve never told anyone else in my life onto a page has alleviated the shame surrounding what happened, and allowed me to feel lighter. As if I have just gotten a lifetime of pain and embarrassment off my chest.

I’ve also had a few panic attacks and dissociative moments, but I’m still chalking this up as a win. Sometimes I would have trouble sleeping because memories kept plaguing me. My brain would offer up a rotating selection of every time I said something stupid, or someone didn’t like me, or when past traumas unfolded. Ever since I hit the midpoint in the book, I have slept without a single issue. I’m not sure how long this will last, but it’s a welcomed change from the usual.

The process of writing a memoir, because they are by definition so deeply personal, is different for everyone, I’m sure. I feel as though putting my life on a page in a way I’ve never done before, and it has been a great experience.

When I finished filling out my profile on SpaceHey I saw I had eight friend requests waiting and hesitated before looking at them. What if they were trolls? What if they left rude comments on my blog? What if they messaged me even more hate? I accepted every single request.

Not because I am now bulletproof.

But because there is more to this world than the trolls, who always seem to appear. For entirely too long I let the people who couldn’t stand me give me life advice and that’s over now. Right now, I feel like I’m a new person and nothing is going to keep me from enjoying the nostalgia of SpaceHey or getting to sleep at night.